Seems like a good deal for basically a brand new bike. Did you simply not click with it? She is a bit under powered & (IMO) not a good choice for an only bike. More than enough back country roads in my area to get anywhere I want to go without hitting an interstate. No regrets over the purchase of ours..... Hope everything is going well for you. It's seems you've done far more upgrades than most would do for a bike they didn't click with.
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